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I can relate to it so much. I haven't heard this quote of Jung's but, boy oh boy, does it ring true to me. In my case though, you could replace "man's god" with "man's source of anxiety" ;).

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Glad this resonated with you Aleks!! The anxiety piece definitely sounds familiar lol

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Here are some quotes from this piece that stuck with me:

" ... periods of safety followed by periods of passion."

" ... safety-desiring self as Corporate Shiv ... passion-desiring self as Spontaneous Shiv."

"If I were to leave my corporate job ... I would simply have another set of gods that I’d start answering to."

Looking forward to the framework in your next post!

For me, I feel a similar version of the safe vs. passion conflict. I think there might be something universal about this. Schopenhauer wrote (or maybe said), "Mankind was apparently doomed to vacillate eternally between the two extremes of distress and boredom."

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Ooo love that Schopenhauer quote. I couldn’t agree more! It’s like our attention/interest in living life exists on a spectrum of boredom to distress, and finding the right balance is tough. Maybe we can find that balance easier on a day-to-day basis, but it’s tougher when thinking about how choices play out over time. Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts, Cole!

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Maybe the key is to just stay focused on the day-to-day and not think so much about "over time." I think that's what Eckhart Tolle, author of "The Power of Now," would suggest.

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Oh wow, this is my story! I always referred to it as a dichotomy— the logical and creative selves that could not exist at the same time. Somehow, I am managing both right now. I have my career which is stable and I’m writing more than I ever have. It means I’m “working” all the time but I cannot pay bills on claps. I’m hoping one day the creative self will eclipse the professional so I can live in this space instead. I don’t know when or if it’s possible but the journey starts here.

Also, our names are pronounced the same, mine just doesn’t have the i sound at the end. 🙂

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I love the eclipse metaphor and hope the same for us both!! Wishing you the best with your writing journey ♥️

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